Stupid argument

Bryan is working now... he'll be home after 1am, but before he left, we were arguing.

Remember my wonderful $$$ saving trip to Publix? Well, one of the items purchased was two big bags of candy (buy one, get one free) and I had a $2 coupon. Each bag only cost me $4, but they are really $10 bags.

I took one bag to work today.

The second bag was here. I don't usually give the kids candy regularly, but I do like to put a piece of one in the lunch boxes every now and again. Plus, one small Reeses' cup is a wonderful prize for any job well done.

Bryan can stand that the candy is in the house and we fought over my buying them at all. Hence, why one bag made it to my work.

I guess Olivia was caught eating a piece and having a few pieces in her hand. When she saw Bryan coming into the room, she quickly made off like she needed to go to the bathroom and skipped into the bathroom.

Bryan is convinced that she was stuffing many pieces down her throat and she got in trouble. All of this happened while I was outside.

So, I come in and Bryan tells me that Olivia is not allowed to have a snack... she is being punished. I then announce that it is late anyway and neither Wade or Meredith needs to eat before bed.

Meredith quickly points out that it isn't fair for Olivia to get ONE candy and that she and her brother should have none at all.

I offer her an apple, but the poor child has all loose teeth in the front,so eating an apple is too difficult. I tell her that one piece of candy is all that Olivia got and if she wants the same she can have ONE piece. She agreed.

Then, Wade came out and announced that he wanted an apple. Well, I wasn't going to just give him an apple when the other two were not eating a whole snack. So, I offered him ONE piece of candy.

This is when Bryan lost it. He was SOOO raving mad that I declined Wade the apple but saw fit to give him a piece of candy.

This led to him yelling about how fat all of us are and then he threw out the entire bag... except the two pieces he had to reach in to the garbage and take out because Wade was crying that Daddy through out his snack. (what a mess)

I was mad because I was so proud of my cheap candy find, only to have the whole bag tossed into the garbage. So, I started fighting with him.

Now, I ask you is Wade overweight?

I don't believe that having the candy is such a bad thing... they don't ever eat any... we are still going through Halloween candy hidden in the closet.

He literally threw my find and $$$ into the trash!

He's a jerk when it comes to this subject. I will have to just let this one go, too, because he will never concede that what he did was wrong.

UUUUGGGGGHHHHH!!!!! Sometimes I can't stand him.